Your sex life is one of the biggest rollercoasters in the entire relationship. That said, he still thinks the struggles related to living together—or the lack thereof—boil down to commitment.
I know, it sounds a bit unfair, and maybe it is. You can also try wearing sexy underwear underneath those unsexy sweatpants, or make a point to still dress up for one another on a regular basis. Studies consistently show that engaged couples who live together enjoy the same benefits—satisfaction, commitment, less conflict—as people who wait until marriage to move in.
J Marie June 13, One of the very first reasons that your sex life might start to slow is because moving is an incredibly stressful experience, for both of you.
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As for me—a former cohabiter who did things halfway wrong, halfway right, in the eyes of the experts? But make sure you give your partner a chance to meet your needs first. Being comfortable with your partner is a good thing, and most likely one of the reasons you chose to move in together in the first place.